Being single is the best, if you don’t love yourself
“I’m in love now…” *shy*
“Ooo… I think I’m falling in love too…” yet another… *shy* Again?!
“Huh? I think I’m gonna get a girlfriend soon…”
“Hey! You better re-consider about it before you do it.”
“WHY???” the other one hailing in the air…
As you can see, the conversations are talking about love and of course here are focusing on guys falling in love with girls and the intention to get a girlfriend. Well, let me ask you all one question first. Are you single? If your answer is yes, then you should continue reading this post till the end of it. What if your answer is no? If this happens to you, please do not leave, I would suggest that you should also continue reading this post as you might get some extra knowledge or maybe a little bit different views about love (whatever it is…). 
Nowadays, people are so eagerly looking forward to have love relationship with others in their young ages. They are so keen to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend in their very young ages and it seems like this process is moving toward younger and younger ages. It’s kind of sad to see this thing happened in our world today. I don’t think people know about love in their very young ages. At least they don’t really know about it and even understand the meanings of love. It seems like they get involved in those love stuffs to early when they still blur and confuse about it. These are all my personal views on this issue, mean no harms to anyone out there.
After all, how you gonna love someone else when you don’t even know how to love yourself first? How you gonna care someone else when you don’t even know how to care about yourself first? Do you think that loving and caring about yourself is just like clubbing every night, drinking a jug of beer, a jug after a jug, until you got yourself blurred and confused which signs indicated the male washroom and female washroom. In addition to that, you got yourself lost while trying to find your way home too (sigh…). At the end of the day, you created so many troubles to yourself and what’s the worst is you also created so many troubles to your friends too!
Well, that’s only one example from me. How about driving your car in dangerous ways, not to say racing car or motorbike illegally on the highway? Living your life in unhealthy ways and having so much unhealthy living styles? What about unhealthy cultures and all those unhealthy thingies in your life? All these things concluded that you know how to love yourself and how to take care of yourself? Try to think about it, what makes you think that you know what love is all about?
Staying single is good, if you don’t know what is love;
Remain single is better, if you don’t know how to love yourself and take care of yourself;
Being single is the best, if you don’t want to get hurt and what’s more important is if you don’t want to hurt others.
Besides, I don’t think bringing your girl or your boy to the club every night is all that what you want in your life… 
Before ending my post here, I wish to share with you all about this:
“Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.
But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
So take your time and choose the best.”
Till then, stay tune for my next post here.
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There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship when you’re young. In fact, I often say that it’s a must, not because it makes you happy, but because experiencing what it’s all about is the only way you’ll know what you want later in the future.
We finding love is easy, keeping it on the other hand is a matter of trial and error. One you don’t want to pay dearly when you found the one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. So live, and learn. Be happy and be hurt.
Because when the time comes, only then will you know what lines shouldn’t be crossed, and where you should go.
Nice one. Chasing after Love will make it never happen. Let it comes naturally.
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Edrei, thanks for your comment ya! That’s only my point of views on this matter, didn’t mean anything. I just wonder is it suitable to get in a relationship when one is still in primary school? Will that be too young though…?
Hey guy, I strongly agreed with your notions. Before you fall in love to somebody, please make sure love yourself then just talk about love your love one’s… I was passed experience before that… So that, I’m in learning process how to love myself and always upgrade our self… You seen read more books and get starting write something view… Not bad… Keep it on…
Anywhere, thanks for your notions. I think I start get my direction and hopefully will be choose the best accompany me till end my life… Haha…
Geogy: Why not? Kids have a different perception to what love and like is than the rest of us. Never underestimate how a kid can handle things. More often than not, they handle things better than adults. Besides, I had my first crush on a girl when I was in Kindergarten. Is that too young? Is that our perception or the kid’s perception?
Edrei: Really thanks for your views. It’s useful for me. At least I have different views on this matter now. I’m agreed with you that we shouldn’t underestimate how a kid can handle things and sometimes better than adults. Maybe the way they think is not that complicated as adults always did. Huh?! Really? Hmm… I think it supposed to be our perception though… Haha…
Andrew: Guy, thanks for visiting my blog here. Your direction? Which way? Recently, I got heard something about you oh~ New admire? New target? LOL! Anyway, all the best to you and keep your hard works ya!
Lee: I tried to share there also but couldn’t make it though. I think I got some problems with the login or registration parts…