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Well, today’s topic we are going to talk about crying… Yeah! You are right! It’s crying I’m going to discuss with you all here. First of all, I would like to ask, do you cry? I’m sure you all would answer me this way, “Of course! Why not?”. Ya ya! Everyone cries. You cry when you are sad, you cry when you are down, and you cry even when you are happy! But do you cry when you are feeling bored?!

She was crying alone in the room the other day. I was quite shocked why she was crying there and decided to find out. I asked her for several times but failed to find out the reasons why. All I could do was just keep on trying to cheer her up. I thought I had done something wrong to her but I couldn’t remember what I have done to her. By the way, she also said that it wasn’t my problem though. I was relieved when she said like that as I really couldn’t remember anything if I did had done something wrong to her.

After some times, she seemed to be calmed down a little bit. I tried to ask her again why she was crying and then she started to tell me all about that. I was shocked and surprised when I heard one of the reasons she gave me was because of boring! All I never thought was that the feeling of boredom could have such a big influence towards one’s emotion! I really never thought of that and did not expect she would just cry just because of feeling bored!

Of course there were other tiny factors that made her cried. One of them was the feeling of missing her parents. Well, I kind of missing my parents and family in Sibu too. How I wish I could go back again to have a break though I’m just coming back from there not too long ago.

In a nutshell, just cry if you feel that you want to cry! Don’t keep all the things in your heart! Don’t you think sometimes it’s kind of tired when you try to keep all the things and feelings deep inside your heart?! Just express them out! Just let them all out! Don’t keep them in your heart! Crying is one of the best ways to relieve ourselves. If you are facing the hardest time in your life, you would feel better after crying out loud. Believe it or not? Just believe it! After all, you don’t have to pay for crying!

Limteh Emotion, Sibu

When is the suitable time to start a new relationship after breaking up with your ex-girlfriend? Well, this question is always running on my mind since I broke up with my first love. Today, I’m thinking about the same question again and I’m gonna discuss about it with you all.

Usually (or normally), when something ‘big’ happen in your life, you will face different emotions – sadness, happiness, anger, joy, tension, relief, hopelessness, upset, disappoint, boredom and so on and on… (you name it). And of course, the end of a relationship will also lead you to the same situation. Different emotions that you have drive you to the different reactions, some say positive and some say negative too.

So, what do you think is the suitable time to start a new relationship after breaking up someone? Irrespective of who broke up with who, the end of a relationship is usually related with some amount of hurt deep inside our heart and soul. When the situation comes to this way, is it suitable for us to start a new relationship right after the end of past relationship? If not, when do you think is the suitable time?

Some people say, when something like this happened to you, your emotionally thinking will affect your sense of judgment. You will probably hardly to see things clear, especially new person in front of you (perhaps we can say target or choice). You will probably see the person that you meet right after the break up as being the better option than your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend. And that’s happen too even they are not your Mr. Right or Miss Right.

Besides, the feelings of loneliness will also lead you or force you to start dating right away after the break up. Some people really can’t stand the feelings of loneliness. They had got used to be accompanied and not to be alone. But is it okay with that? I think you should give yourself adequate time to heal from the hurts of your past relationship. Rushing things like this will only bring you into more troubles in the future. Once the torrents of emotions flowing through your mind has calmed down, then you can objectively decide on a new person to go out with. Try to think about it. I will suggest you to think properly first before taking any further action. Think before you act!

After what we have above, what conclusion can you make? What’s your opinion or suggestion about it? I hope I can see something from you all. Give me some comments and we can further discuss about it. Who knows, maybe you can help me in my next posts.

Limteh Emotion, Relationship

Sometimes, I’m quite confuse about my feeling, can’t differentiate whether it is unhappy or sad. Is it both of them got any differences or just the same? Yet, I think there will be a little bit different.

Someone feel unhappy when…
Can’t achieve what they expected,
Can’t be No.1 among their friends,
Don’t have financial support from parents,
Disappointed lecturers in term of results,
Being ignored by friends,
Being cheated by buddies,

Someone feel sad when…
Still fail to get what they wanted even tried harder,
Can’t be No.1 in their parents’ eyes,
Don’t have ability to provide financial support to parents,
Disappointed mom and dad in daily life,
Being ignored by family,
Being cheated by lover,

Unhappy can become sad when we face different things, different people, or having different perspectives in our daily life. There is only a slightly step towards changes. I think the obvious difference between unhappy and sad is that the level of consequence that makes people recover is totally dissimilar. One hurts your surface while the other one hurts deeply inside your heart.

No matter how much difference they are, those feelings are most not welcome by people, of course it’s including me duh! Both of them make me feel uncomfortable, I hate both of them because they always make me express my weakness – cry. I’m the one who can easily drop tears and most of the times I can’t really control it, that’s why I’m real hate them (unhappy and sad).

Limteh Emotion, Life