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You Never Try You Never Know

June 4th, 2010

“You never try you never know” 这句话在现今的社会里,已成为了很多人的座右铭。人们时不时都会把这句话挂在嘴边。很多事情都说 “You never try you never know”。对。这句话很有意思,也很有作用。当你不确定一件事情的时候,当你不知所措的时候,当你拿不定主意的时候,你可以都用上它。当然,当你想找个借口的时候,你也是可以把它派上用场的,这里我想特别提的就是,感情。

在感情的世界里,任何事情都可以发生。很多时候,当一个人不知道该如何做一项决定时,他们常常都会想起了这么一句话 “You never try you never know”。所以可以相信,在这世界上,真的有人会因为这么一句话而走在一起了。如果结果是好的话,当然就是拍了拖,然后结婚生子,一起过着幸福美满的生活咯。但,如果结果并不是我们想象的那样呢?那问题就出现了。

在感情世界里,很多人常常以为自己可以改变自己,甚至改变对方。在这里,改变自己就是说,让自己对对方有感觉,从欣赏到喜欢,从喜欢到爱,藉着跟对方在一起的时间,慢慢来培养彼此的感情。这没有所谓的对与错,因为那也是感情世界里的其中一个过程。但,如果万一有一天,当你发现你根本就无法真正地投入在这一个感情里面,你无法真正地跟对方培养出一段感情,甚至你开始怀疑自己对对方的感觉的时候,你会怎么做呢?

很多时候,他们都会考虑到一点,“既然在一起那么久时间了,怎么说都有感情了,如果现在放手,会不会有点可惜呢?” 。我想说的是,如果那个感情不是因为爱的话,那何苦再继续下去呢?这样的话,对自己,对对方,都不是一件很好的事,更别说那是公平的,特别对对方更是很不公平的。就算今天让你们都安然无恙的度过了这一关,难保这一个问题不会再日后又出现的。你能给保证说不会再有那样的问题吗?

很多人往往都忘了在 “You never try you never know” 这句话的后面,其实还有这么一句话的 “Once you tried, if it’s not suitable, just let go”。当你所做的一切都已尽力了,而还是觉得不适合的话,其实你心里应该很明白你其实真正要的是什么了。别太自私,当你真的发觉尝试了后还是不适合的话,就应该放手了。牢牢的套着对方,其实对对方是很不公平的。这样也对大家没好处的。更别说为了怕自己做错决定,或是怕自己以后会后悔,怕日后会失去一切,一无所有,而牢牢的抓着对方的手,那真的是很自私的行为了。因为每个人都有绝对的权利去追求自己的幸福的,没有人可以无赖的去阻止或拖延别人去寻找属于他们自己的幸福的。

当然,在感情的世界里,两个人在一起就应该互相谅解,互相迁就,互相尊重,互相爱护,互相关心,互相疼爱,还有很多很多的互相。。。最重要的是,两个人在一起千万不要试着改变对方,因为久而久之,对方就会失去自我了。当对方失去自我的时候,很多问题就会接踵而来了。而且,当初你欣赏,喜欢,甚至爱对方,也是因为对方真实的自己啊,不是吗?学着去接受对方的一切吧。愿所有天下有情人终成眷属。。。努力去追求属于自己的幸福吧!别因为别人的三言两语就抹杀了自己的幸福和未来!因为唯有自己才是最了解自己的人!

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Why A Woman Needs A Husband

December 1st, 2009

Brothers

In my previous post, we talked about why a man needs a wife. As I promised, this time I’m going to share why a woman needs a husband. We are going to talk about why a woman needs a husband in her life, of course that’s not including those who are going to stay single for the rest of their life. :P

Have you all ever come across this question in your mind? Have you ever think about it? Well, I got a chance to hear some reasons why given by some people and I found this one is quite interesting to me. :D

H : Housing (Provide a house for you, that’s called a home)

U : Understanding (Knowing and understanding you well)

S : Sharing (Willing to share everything with you)

B : Buying (Willing to buy anything for you)

A : And

N : Never

D : Demanding (That’s the most important thing to you, right?) :P

So, what do you think about it? If you’ve got some words of your own, feel free to share them in the comments section. Thank you. :D

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Why A Man Needs A Wife?

November 19th, 2009

Have you all ever come across this question in your mind? Have you ever think about why a man needs a wife?

Wife

I heard some people said that wife is a very precious and important person to a man. I’m sure most of you would agree this statement, right? However, what are the reasons that you would give me to support this statement?

Well, here is something that I found quite interesting to me. :D

W : Washing (Wife helps man to wash their clothes and dishes)

I : Ironing (Wife helps man to iron their clothes)

F : Food (Wife prepares food for man. Breakfast, lunch, dinner…)

E : Entertainment (Wife entertains man. Make him laugh…)

So, ladies and gentlemen, what do you think about it? Kindly share what you think about it here. Thank you and stay tuned for my next post about husband. :D

*Picture taken from Google*

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Happy Father’s Day

June 21st, 2009

Dear Joseph Lim,

Dad, first of all, I apologize for not being able to be with you in this very special day. I’m sure you know how I wish to be right there with you and family today. I’m sorry that I can’t make it though. :sad:

Dad, hereby I wish you a Happy Father’s Day! All the best to you and may GOD bless you! :D

Last but not least, dad, I Love You! All I want you to know is that I really love you so much! I’m sure you also know how much I love you and family. So please do take good care of yourself and family. May GOD bless our family always!

Sincerely from your loved son,
George Lim

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Being single is the best, if you don’t love yourself

June 15th, 2009

“I’m in love now…” *shy*

“Ooo… I think I’m falling in love too…” yet another… *shy* Again?!

“Huh? I think I’m gonna get a girlfriend soon…”

“Hey! You better re-consider about it before you do it.”

“WHY???” the other one hailing in the air…

As you can see, the conversations are talking about love and of course here are focusing on guys falling in love with girls and the intention to get a girlfriend. Well, let me ask you all one question first. Are you single? If your answer is yes, then you should continue reading this post till the end of it. What if your answer is no? If this happens to you, please do not leave, I would suggest that you should also continue reading this post as you might get some extra knowledge or maybe a little bit different views about love (whatever it is…). :P

Nowadays, people are so eagerly looking forward to have love relationship with others in their young ages. They are so keen to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend in their very young ages and it seems like this process is moving toward younger and younger ages. It’s kind of sad to see this thing happened in our world today. I don’t think people know about love in their very young ages. At least they don’t really know about it and even understand the meanings of love. It seems like they get involved in those love stuffs to early when they still blur and confuse about it. These are all my personal views on this issue, mean no harms to anyone out there.

After all, how you gonna love someone else when you don’t even know how to love yourself first? How you gonna care someone else when you don’t even know how to care about yourself first? Do you think that loving and caring about yourself is just like clubbing every night, drinking a jug of beer, a jug after a jug, until you got yourself blurred and confused which signs indicated the male washroom and female washroom. In addition to that, you got yourself lost while trying to find your way home too (sigh…). At the end of the day, you created so many troubles to yourself and what’s the worst is you also created so many troubles to your friends too!

Well, that’s only one example from me. How about driving your car in dangerous ways, not to say racing car or motorbike illegally on the highway? Living your life in unhealthy ways and having so much unhealthy living styles? What about unhealthy cultures and all those unhealthy thingies in your life? All these things concluded that you know how to love yourself and how to take care of yourself? Try to think about it, what makes you think that you know what love is all about?
Single
Staying single is good, if you don’t know what is love;

Remain single is better, if you don’t know how to love yourself and take care of yourself;

Being single is the best, if you don’t want to get hurt and what’s more important is if you don’t want to hurt others.

Besides, I don’t think bringing your girl or your boy to the club every night is all that what you want in your life… :D Before ending my post here, I wish to share with you all about this:

“Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you.

But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.

Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love is only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.

So take your time and choose the best.”

Till then, stay tune for my next post here. :D

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