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Have you ever, in your life, asking yourself how courageous you are? Or perhaps asking yourself in this way, how dare you are? I’m sure there will be a lot of people all around the world claiming themselves very courage and dare to challenge anything (anything you can name it), but are you dare to cut off your penis just to protest against something you don’t like? Yes! You are right! It’s penis! Your very own penis!

Aha, don’t get me wrong. I’m not gonna challenge you to cut off your penis. I’m here just to share with you all something that I read from a newspaper recently. Talking about challenge, have you ever challenge other people or being challenged by other people in your life? I’m sure you got both these experiences. As for me, these called process of life, a process that one cannot prevent or avoid. Perhaps you can say that, life is full of challenges. Though these challenges can make you grow up and being matured, there are some challenges we still can’t take and don’t even think or consider about it. And protesting something with your own little penis sounds really not so good.

There is a guy, an Egyptian, 25-year-old laborer in southern Egypt, cutting off his own penis in protesting against his parents. The reason is, he was rejected by his parents to marry with a woman he was in love with but to marry another woman that he didn’t want. At the end of the day, he decided to cut off his penis in protest at his parents’ choice of bride with a knife in his room (wtf). In addition, the man was also mutilated his testicles and what made it worst was that the doctors were unable to reattach the severed member! *sigh*

Sounds unbelievable? Believe it!

After all, you still dare to take the challenge to cut off your penis? Just to protest something you don’t like? Now that you have to re-think or re-consider, whether to take or not some challenges in your life. Some challenges are good, like people always say, with challenges in our life then only we can be improved and being a better one, but some challenges I bet you don’t even dare to take it. Dare not? Better don’t, I tell you!

Limteh Love, Relationship

A day a smile;

Doesn’t cost you anything, but give you much in return.

A day a smile;

You will find that, a smile can create happiness, hopes, chances, and so much more to people around you.

A day a smile;

Sunshine to those needy and the best antidote for those in trouble.

Most people still don’t know the value of a smile and the meanings behind the smiling habit.

I wish to make a start;

Learn to smile everyday, smile to people around me, encourage others to smile in their daily life.

Even none is so rich that he or she can live without a smile, so smile everyday.

Limteh Love, Smile

A lot of time, couple don’t understand how to treasure the time being together. Instead, they starting fire every now and then, which causing me a big question mark. Well, I can’t say that I never did that too, but I tried to cut it down as much as I can and give patience as much as I can. Sometimes it just burst out un-controllable. But however, the separation will definitely helps in the relationship. It will definitely break a relationship as well. Depending on one selfs though.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for years, we are still intact, strongly believe that apart is not the reason. Maybe I am living in my own fairy tale land too, but I would say the thinking that matters. You may ask why, or perhaps like a good friend of my suggest, go fuck someone else she doesn’t know it too. Well, I like to do that too Anyway, there are some points need to be taken when having this kinda relationship though.

1, Responsibility.
How responsibility are you and your partner in the relationship. This is more than just “believe”. They tell me they believe that their partner won’t do anything bad over the other corner of the earth. But do you know how “responsible” he/she is on the other part? This is the real question instead. When you pick up this relationship and knowing the concequences, you should understand yourself the best, how responsible you are, because it’s all come back to you. This need to bne mutual though, both side have to be responsible enough to take the risk of LDR.

2, Motive.
What is the motive behind the relationship. Shit you not, all relationship has a motive, that’s is how it motivate you to do certain stupid thing to the partner. If you’re just looking for someone that can spend time together, congratuation, you could just find any hot chick at anytime you want. Because the motive was to have somebody beside you, or perhaps in bed as well? Whichever it is, you just don’t need to commit to a relationship yet. If you’re trutly know that you’re going to commit to a relationship or want to drop into marriage, go ahead, eventually you will be responsible.

I reckon my girlfriend and I are quite commiting to this relationship. I know how responsible she is. Funny, when you’re with somebody that you really believe in, everything they do is expected. So I still choose to believe what I expect she’s going to do.

Limteh Love, Relationship

Normally, before a boy and a girl build up their relationship, there will be some ‘before’ and ‘after’ differences. Recently, one of my best friends had told me about her experience in boys and girls relationship.

My friend is a very simple girl and a bit tom-boy style though; therefore she never had a date with a boy before in her 24-year old life until one year during her university’s holiday. Long enough huh? As usual, she would find some part-time jobs during that period to earn some extra pocket money. However, that holiday was a bit different from the past because she met a boy who had touched her heart deep inside and now become part of her memories…

Before a couple starts their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy would give some signals to the girl that he wished to be together with the girl. Then, a lot of warming and touching messages would be sent to the girl’s hand phone, such as “Don’t forget to eat before you go to work ya”, “Remember to sleep early ya”, “I will fetch you after you finish working ya”, and so forth.

Before a couple starts their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy would give some surprises to the girl frequently. Small gifts such as a cute teddy bear, a meaningful watch, a souvenir that bring from other places during the journey or vacation. All these things indicated that the girl is always in the boy’s mind no matter where he is.

Before a couple starts their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy would always date the girl out with him, either with his friends or just both of them. Sometimes, the boy would bring the girl to have dinner and introduce the girl to all his friends. Sometimes, the boy would bring the girl to have a drink and share all his sadness and happiness with the girl.

Finally, the girl touched by the boy’s sincerity and become his girlfriend. They start their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, thinking and dreaming that their love relationship will last forever, looking forward to live happily together ever after. However, sometimes, things are never happen as we expected. There are 360 degree differences before and after they got together.

After a couple started their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy only sent a few or even none of the short messages to the girl and each message only replied with a few words though. Warming and touching messages previously sent before they got together were never seen again.

After a couple started their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, there were no surprises or small gifts anymore. Every single lonely night, the girl was hoping so much that she would receive some unexpected surprises or small gifts in the next day, just like what the boy did before. However, her wishes and hopes had never come true.

After a couple started their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend, the boy seldom dated the girl out. The reasons that the boy gave to the girl were “Not convenient to bring you alone as you don’t know my friends and they are all guys”, “I’m busy with my job now and can’t have dinner with you”, “I don’t have money so we better don’t go out to eat”, bla bla bla and so on. What a reason huh?

Finally, the girl can’t stand anymore for the boy’s significant changes in their relationship. There were too many differences in their relationship ‘before’ and ‘after’. Thus, she had broken up with the boy at last.

Are the boys out there also behave and act like that in a relationship? Don’t they think that they are very irresponsible? Or they are too confident and even over confident that the girls would stay with them forever and ever after they successfully got the girls as their girlfriends? Duh! I think only the boys themselves know the answer deep inside their heart…

Limteh Love, Relationship

Ever wonder and asking yourself, what is the most difficult lesson in your life? Psychology? Chemistry? Politics? Ethnic relations? Or marketing, financial, human resource, law and so on and on in those MBA classes?

Well… no no no. The answer is NO! What I think and what’s in my mind is LOVE. Love is the most difficult lesson to learn in our life. Each person will learn about love at different times throughout their journey of life, and the knowledge that each person get will also not be the same.

Love is a lesson that we cannot learn from textbooks, and there’s no way for us to use quick method in learning this lesson. Love is a lesson that we cannot learn through memorize everything. Love is something that we can only rely on the feelings.

Some people dare not to try it because they are fear of failure, but some people get hurt very deep inside their heart though they are very confident in love. No one can ever try to escape from learning this lesson, or else you will never ever pass this lesson.

The only thing that we can do is trying to figure out it slowly and slowly along our journey in life. Perhaps, someone will ask, “When will we know whether we are pass or not in this lesson?” Well, I’m sorry to tell you, we can only know the results when it comes to the end of our journey in life.

Love, is it a lesson that you want to learn?

Limteh Life, Love