When is the suitable time to start a new relationship after breaking up with your ex-girlfriend? Well, this question is always running on my mind since I broke up with my first love. Today, I’m thinking about the same question again and I’m gonna discuss about it with you all.

Usually (or normally), when something ‘big’ happen in your life, you will face different emotions – sadness, happiness, anger, joy, tension, relief, hopelessness, upset, disappoint, boredom and so on and on… (you name it). And of course, the end of a relationship will also lead you to the same situation. Different emotions that you have drive you to the different reactions, some say positive and some say negative too.
So, what do you think is the suitable time to start a new relationship after breaking up someone? Irrespective of who broke up with who, the end of a relationship is usually related with some amount of hurt deep inside our heart and soul. When the situation comes to this way, is it suitable for us to start a new relationship right after the end of past relationship? If not, when do you think is the suitable time?
Some people say, when something like this happened to you, your emotionally thinking will affect your sense of judgment. You will probably hardly to see things clear, especially new person in front of you (perhaps we can say target or choice). You will probably see the person that you meet right after the break up as being the better option than your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend. And that’s happen too even they are not your Mr. Right or Miss Right.
Besides, the feelings of loneliness will also lead you or force you to start dating right away after the break up. Some people really can’t stand the feelings of loneliness. They had got used to be accompanied and not to be alone. But is it okay with that? I think you should give yourself adequate time to heal from the hurts of your past relationship. Rushing things like this will only bring you into more troubles in the future. Once the torrents of emotions flowing through your mind has calmed down, then you can objectively decide on a new person to go out with. Try to think about it. I will suggest you to think properly first before taking any further action. Think before you act!
After what we have above, what conclusion can you make? What’s your opinion or suggestion about it? I hope I can see something from you all. Give me some comments and we can further discuss about it. Who knows, maybe you can help me in my next posts.
Limteh
Emotion, Relationship
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